LOVE YOURSELF OR YOU CAN’T ACCEPT LOVE

LOVE YOURSELF? GOOD.

It’s the key to the whole love mystery.

DON’T LOVE YOURSELF?

Too bad.

You can’t love anyone else either.

You’re doomed in the love arena.

If you don’t love yourself you can’t love anyone else because you cannot give away what you don’t have.

  • If you don’t have money, you can’t give it away.
  • If you don’t have food, you can’t give it away.
  • And if you don’t have love for yourself, you can’t give it away to anyone else.

IT GETS WORSE!

HOW COULD IT POSSIBLY GET WORSE?

Because not only are you unable to love anyone else, you are not able to accept love from anyone else either.

 YOU CAN’T ACCEPT LOVE

Why?

Because the “unlovable” person does not believe anyone could love him/her.

They know the “truth”–you see, that they are unlovable.

They “know” this.

You can’t convince them they are worth loving.

They cannot get past the idea, the belief that they are unlovable.

Nothing will convince them.

And so, “knowing ” this to be true, they then suspect that any show of affection that comes to them is fraught with baggage.

They think the people who say they love them are lying, mistaken, manipulative or stupid.

Otherwise these people, too (the misguided ones who say they love me), would recognize that I am unlovable and reject me.

“I mean,” they’ll say,

 

“It’s obvious. I’m not a worthy person. I am not worthy of love. I am  not loveable person. I know it and they should  be able to see it and know it too. If they can’t see it there must be something wrong with them.”

Sad, you say? Yes.

Complicated, of course..

But also simple.

You cannot love someone else if you do not love yourself.

And you cannot accept love from another if you do not love yourself.

CAN THIS CRAZY BELIEF BE FIXED?

Yes, it can. But  not  before it gets even worse.

WHAT? HOW COULD IT BE WORSE?

To make things even worse, to go even deeper,

you cannot love what you do not know.

Therefore, you cannot love yourself unless you know yourself.

Everything is centered in Self-Knowledge.

There’s a lot more to this.

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The Ebook doesn’t directly address the love question we are discussing here but it is related.

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The, you’ll discover how great you are!

And then– and only then– will  you be able to love yourself.

If you already do love yourself, terrific, then you’ll  learn more about you, always a good thing.

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Frank Daley
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